A quick weekend girls trip to Barcelona was enough to fall utterly, completely in love with Gaudi’s work starting with the still unfinished La Sagrada Familia. Time is of the essence when visiting Gaudi’s masterpiece. Take the time to absorb the quiet noise, but don’t forget that it’s still primarily a house of worship. Reservations are needed to enter but once inside, you can linger all you wish.
Most valuable tip from locals: Don’t miss your ticket time for the main gate nor for a tower visit!
Tip for those with children, vertigo, claustrophobia: If you choose to climb the steps of either of the 2 towers currently open to the public, don’t look down. You may also wish to skip stepping out onto a balcony, too. Just saying.
Special thanks to gal pal Ana & my Bella for posing it up for me. Muwahhh!
Panicked Parenting: DIY Party Invitations
Every year, I say I’m going to do it different “next year” — then when next year gets here, I recreate the wheel. This year is no different. I’d like to say that I had this DIY party invitation planned weeks in advance. Honestly, I totally lost track of time left to purchase ready made invitations. So when I realized that my child’s birthday party was the weekend after I returned from an overseas trip and a few days before the winter break, I had a small heart attack. Ok, a huge heart attack. I became the panicked parent, the one who was buckling under pressure to have invitations ready a full month before the party. I didn’t have time to order a cool photocard online and didn’t have time to get to the store for the cute little fill-in-the-blank invitations. So I decided to try my hand at a DIY party invitation. After a few attempts at an origami party invitation, I found an easier solution.
Google + free cards to the rescue.
After a few minutes Googling for “free kids birthday invitation” online, I discovered Greetings Island. I ransacked our craft supplies and found what I needed. Since I didn’t have envelopes handy, I decided to make it an all-in-one invitation.
cardstock (we had size A4 & I used several complementary colors)
papercutter (I can’t cut straight lines)
glue (glue stick works best)
ribbon (I used curling ribbon)
Here’s what I did:
After I finished my invitation design in Greetings Island, I downloaded it and also printed it 2 per page on regular printer paper. This invitation was square and I had to print out several sheets for the number of invitations that were going out to her class and friends.
Cut out the invitations, using either a paper cutter or scrapbook scissors (I used a wavy design).
Use a paper cutter to cut each sheet of cardstock in half, on the long side.
Glue the square invitation on the top part of each half.
Fold bottom half up to cover the party information (or whatever looks good for your invitation). This is a really flexible all-in-one design.
Use washi tape to seal both sides of the bottom flap.
Punch 2 holes at the top of the invitation and use a length of ribbon for a bowtie as an accent.
Voila, you’re done.
They turned out really cute, didn’t they? My child loved them and when she came home needing a couple more, it didn’t take more than a few minutes to make a few more.
Note: It took me about 10-12 minutes to make 6 cards, from start to finish.
ChitChat pack 1.6: Fall for these favorite links
School is back in session and the ChitChat Pack is back after a brief pause. I’m building a similar pack for my Biz page as it’s been a while since I’ve blogged there. No excuses as to why, just that I got superbly busy. That means that although life was chaotic and for a time, I was solo parenting, life was all in all Superb. With a capital “S”. As long as I have coffee at dawn and the occasional chocolate. I’ve been collecting a ton of fab posts and links that I’ve been dying to share with you, so this is slightly bigger than the last post. I hope you’ll fall for some or all of my favorite links, too, starting off with a fun video about going down the proverbial rabbit hole (I’ve done that a few times building up this post).
MUSIC VIDEO: Going down the Rabbit Hole with Whitney Avalon and Jonathan Hurley
The past few days has been a social media struggle NOT to go down the proverbial rabbit hole. Between breaking news on water found on Mars to the refugee situation in Europe, I’ve been jumping over and into rabbit holes all week. So, in honor of Rabbit Holes, I present this YouTube video from funny lady Whitney Avalon. It goes back a couple of years, but it still holds true.
I’ve lived overseas for most of the last 10 years (Japan and Germany, with a brief sidetrip to Afghanistan for the Navy). So when the folks at WeMissOurTv asked me to take a look and share this fun infographic, I thought, why not? It’s their list of 10 best places to live overseas, in bite-size chunks of info. Perfect for the ChitChat pack.
The fall season here in Germany is here and so is the massive party known as Oktoberfest. Contrary to popular belief, not all Germans own a pair of Lederhosen (leather pants or shorts, worn by either gender) or do the ladies all own a bust-enhancing Dirndl and wear them around town. That is truly something found in Bavaria, where a massive 6 million attendees will descend upon Munich, its capital.
One of the best and worst steps for me when traveling is the packing part. (2nd to the planning part, which involves numerous rabbit holes…) I love traveling. I hate deciding what to bring along or not bring along, especially if it’s a combined work/play trip in more than one location or time zone. So, I added this list of travel hacks to my permanent list of go-tos.
We love languages in our home, so much so that anyone listening might hear 3 or 4 different languages in one sentence. We’re a bit weird like that. I’ve heard most of this list from our time in both Japan and Germany. You can Google these words to get a straight up, Refdesk, Webster dictionary definition, but take a look at these illustrations! Some are creepy as my 6 year old would say but you’d be hard-pressed not to be able to recall the meaning!
I love how Gloria Atanmo puts her soul and spirit out there, sharing intriguing and maybe even uncomfortable photos of her being the token black female while traveling, even addressing the haters who criticize her ability to travel as a single childless woman, completely missing the tongue-in-cheek flavor of this piece. Haters gonna hate, peeps.
Note: My mom just completed her 2nd two-week European trip (Spain and Portugal); I’m going to ask her if she was the only Asian in her travel group of American senior citizens…
As parents of an only child, we’re hyper aware of the focus on children reading on time/early, getting good grades early, everything early. So how do we reconcile the fact that we don’t want to get “that” parent, the “helicopter” parent? We teach our child to be resilient and not need us (or an adult) to pull her out of a scrape (provided there’s no blood and guts spilling out). The bounce factor is important here, whether on the playground or in the classroom. Heck, if she can be a 6 year old doing flips on the back of a moving horse, I think we may be onto something here.
I retired a couple of years ago and am blessed that I have a pension coming in while still in my 40s. I’m far from rich, but 20+ years in the military meant that when I retired, I could choose to continue my personal investments into my retirement fund as well as into our child’s college fund. Now that my husband is preparing to retire within the next few years, we’re focusing on our future even more, especially since I started freelancing as a virtual assistant. Questions like “where” to retire in the US or in Europe come up weekly. How will we prepare for aging parents and a college age child? Are we doing enough? Stress is normal but I don’t want us to be caught offguard. So when I found out about Personal Capital and some of their free retirement planning tools, I thought I’d share them here.
MILITARY MIGHT: VAQ-136 Summer 2005 Cruise Video
It’s no secret if you checked out my About page… I loved my time at sea. There were some seriously crappy days. There were at least 2 times where I got so busy that I failed to hydrate during summer cruises that I was a patient on my own ward. That sucked because I would wake up on the ward and have a stack of folders with papers to sign. (It’s nice to be needed, eh?) Anyway, I found this cruise video from one of the airwings during my 2nd summer on the Kitty Hawk. Enjoy!
MUSIC VIDEO: 4th Power, The X Factor UK 2015 Titanium cover/Boot camp
This group of Filipina sisters are nothing short of amazing. Watch it. I dare you to disagree.
MUSIC VIDEO: Burn by the Cure/O’Keefe Music Foundation
Since our child started music lessons (violin or Geiger in German), I’ve been intrigued with childrens music and art foundations. OMF is fantastic. The kids who produce these videos are as young as age 2! Worth the follow if you’re a music lover!
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Cheering you on,
Chitchat pack 1.5: Back to School, Tech and Fashion Trends to Try
Summer’s drawing to a close and I’m in a late summer panic… not enough hours in the day to make up for all the things I still want to do before my child heads into (gasp) first grade. Where did the last couple of months go? Sure we’ve done some traveling in Europe but for the most part, we’re going to hit the next school year with more traveling ahead (Budapest and repeat trips to Paris, Prague and Vienna) and a lot of experiences to add to our family bucket list (indoor ski/snowboard/skydive!). We’re also mentally steeling ourselves for a new school year with more homework and extra-curricular activities for a little one: sport (equestrian vaulting), fine art/music (Irish dancing, violin). I’m reading that last sentence and breaking out in hives. In all seriousness, I’ve done some light research lately and here are some back to school tech and fashion trends that hit my radar recently. I’m hell-bent to try some ASAP. Sure, it may feel like throwing a bunch of ideas to the wall to see what sticks, but at this point in summer vacation, I’m willing to try just about anything to feel like I’m ahead.
READING WITH YOUR CHILD:
SLEEP CHALLENGED KIDS & PARENTS:
I’ve got an early and passionate reader entering first grade. The kind of kid who waits until we think she’s asleep so she can sneak the light back on to read “just one more chapter.” So we’re going to struggle a bit to get her back on track with her sleep cycle… while the sun is still technically up! I stumbled on this lovely book a day or two before I noticed book reviews by NPR, Fortune and Yahoo Health. So for once, I’m ahead of a trend. Or maybe just ahead of mainstream media.
So for your back to school sleep troubles, try reading Carl-Johan Forssén Ehrlin’s The Rabbit who wants to fall asleep. Be prepared to nod off yourself. Don’t say I didn’t warn you!
Sending snacks in with your youngster doesn’t always require a trip down the snack food aisle. Unless your school requires that everything be storebought, grab some fresh fruit and honey (or agave syrup) and a few minutes to prep this super easy recipe. It’s from Megan at What’s Up Moms.
I’ve started downsizing my wardrobe again. I’ve looked at the capsule wardrobe trend–33 pieces per season, basic uniform for the work week, and so on. This article, though a few months old, is one of the BEST I’ve found to help me get through the common troublespots and pitfalls, of wardrobe culling and building. Just in time for the winter season and chunky clothing!
One of the newest additions to my child’s wardrobe is Dutch brand Vingino. She tends to wear the same favorite pieces often until they wear out (or she outgrows them) so I appreciate well-made clothing that’s also super comfortable and stylish. Vingino is the first denim line that she immediately looked at in one of our local stores here in Germany. (She usually doesn’t wear denim)
EUROPE: Fall/ Winter 2015-16 CPM Kids Catwalk
Six international brands presented their Autumn/Winter 15-16 collections at the leading children’s fashion catwalk organised by Children’s Fashion Europe from 24-27 February 2015. Designers at this show included: Blue Seven, Bóboli, Canzitex, Emily Rise, Maria Naumova and Mayoral. These 2 videos are from that show and are fun examples of European kids fashion.
It’s harder to get some of these fashions in North America, but the styles here in Europe for children reflect a great design aesthetic that wears really well. I’ve noticed that the clothes that tend to get handed down to younger friends (or sold to second hand stores) are the pieces that are well-made from quality materials and they rarely are flash-fashion, cheaper lines. Personally I’d rather promote reuse and upcycling than throwing out clothing that don’t last past one season when my child has outgrown them.
Fashion among commuters vary slightly in every city I’ve lived in or visited. When we lived in Japan, I used to gape in awe at the commuters on their bicycles, carrying an umbrella and chatting on a mobilephone. I haven’t noticed fashion take a front seat to practicality on cyclists, whether commuting or exercising. However, in some European cities, some bloggers have taken note of style in their parts of the world. Take a look!
Copenhagen Cycle Chic:
Yes, you can look fab and cycle to work. I love the tag on this page: “Dress for your destination, not your journey.”
Since I missed posting last week due to a last minute trip to Amsterdam (that’s another post), I’m sharing 2 videos this week.
Another Kurt Hugo Schneider video Featuring the Air Wheel (& a great cover of 1D)
And to prep for football season (USA PEEPS), here’s a little OMI for you, courtesy BBCRadio 1Extra Live Lounge.
ChitChat Pack 1.4: Tech in our Home
The summer is flying by quickly. The past week has had unbelievably good weather – sunny and not too warm – perfect for reading outdoors. I’ve done quite a bit of reading this summer (love the Kindle app for my Android phone) but also am addicted to watching Periscope. (I’ll chat more about it in a minute.) We’ve got a lot of tech in our home in the form of cameras, smartphones, iPads and our computers. So it’s no surprise that our child is comfortable with different technology and software. She’s a natural behind the camera and knows how to take decent photos on our phones as well as with digital cameras. (She even videotaped a series of how-to-make-origami animals a couple of weekends ago. I need to edit them for her but other than setting up a tabletop tripod and camera for her, she did everything else – impromptu scripting, set up, etc.)
Isabella captured her father perfectly here when she was 4 or 5.
We monitor her use and have taught her how to use our basic equipment (cameras, laptop, mobile devices) and to respect our rules for what she can watch and which sites she may visit. Also, since my work computer is located in a shared family space, I’m conscious of what I view and read on screen now that she’s reading at a 9 or 10 year old level. I’m also careful what I post because she’s bound to Google me or her dad one day. Teen angst is bad enough without being embarrassed about something your parents wrote about you when you were younger.
Anyway, moving right along to a few of my favorite discoveries from the last few days. This has become a blog post of mini-blog posts, eh?
The other day, little B was feeling under the weather so I let her use my computer for a while to watch iTunes, specifically a Disney show she loves, Dog with a Blog. It’s a clever little show with a blended family and smart, charming kid actors. Sometimes the parents are corny, naive, and maybe a little clueless about what’s really going on in the mind of their teenage daughter. Just like in real life.
SMNTY broaches topics that my Filipino mom would NEVER in a million years talk to me about. Never. This enlightening podcast allows me to listen to those touchy subjects in the car, on headphones, in private. Brilliant! PS: Headphones are strongly recommended for those who blush easily.
When I need a little boost, I’ll seek out an inspirational quote or 2 or 3. I adore the daily quotes in Clementine Daily, founded by Design for Mankind‘s Erin Loechner. And who can deny the calming pull of peach and white?
If you love eye-catching photography, creative shoots, brilliantly designed pages, check out VSCO’s Journal. You won’t need to open an account to surf the journal’s collections. Here are a couple of my favorites. Enjoy!
Izzy Rael: 15 year old uber blogger/photographer
Izzy’s website Common Comfort is such a gorgeous site that it’s hard to believe she’s only 15. Check out her VSCO photo collection here.
I’m unsure if I would have downloaded an app that could show who unfriended me on Facebook, but I do find it interesting that Facebook quickly dashed it into the ground. An app like “Who deleted me” would help quickly clean up friends lists much like how Twitter users can see who unfollowed them via other 3rd party apps. Perhaps Facebook will create an option in a future update? One can only hope.
I’m a relatively new Periscope user and I’m still figuring out the ideal time to catch up with those I follow (being across the Pond from popular US based Periscopers can be painful!). Wait, you don’t know what I’m talking about? Start off with a quick read from popular photo site, FStoppers. Even if you’re not a photographer, this article gives you a good idea what it can be used for in terms of sharing information “live” to up to 1000+ viewers and having it up for followers for 24 hours. For instance, Hubby and I were watching Neil Diamond in the UK last week live on Periscope – one of his crew was broadcasting from the arenas (it was announced on Periscope and Twitter feeds).
Here are 2 broadcasts I enjoy watching on a regular basis (nearly daily!):
Portrait photographer Peter Hurley (he’s funny and engaging)
American expat in Rome Katie Parla She’s a historian and a foodie who broadcasts Roman sights (popular and obscure)
Bookmark this site for a rainy day or weekend project. Medium provides a wonderfully concise list of useful websites to make you smarter about practically any subject.
Music and Video
MuseRadio.org’s interview earlier this year with Michael from Marlais
Marlais’ Electronic – folk music brought MuseRadio out to Berlin earlier this year for a great interview. You can read more on the MuseRadio blog and catch the podcast here.
Cheerleader – OMI: The Filharmonic (A Cappella Cover)
I grew up in Texas with traditional Filipino parties that always had a Minus One or Karaoke sing-off. Singing contests were part of our Filipino community and to this day, there’s a sense of pride when popular rock and YouTube stars include singers with Filipino blood. Lea Salonga, apl.de.ap (Black Eyed Peas), Darren Criss (Glee), AJ Rafael (YouTube) and now The Filharmonics, who played the Filipino acapella group in Pitch Perfect 2.
ChitChat Pack 1.3 – Humpday edition, The Written Word and a bit of Irish Dancing
What are you doing this summer? The school holidays started in our part of Germany this week and my normally scheduled-to-the-hilt calendar is sadly empty. My 6 year old has been in weekly summer camps since mid-June, when her American school went on summer break. Until last week, she had regular German activities that still kept her busy twice a week, but now they are also on “Urlaub” (holiday). Now? I’m at a loss. Thankfully, we have a child who inhales a couple of books every few days, having recently graduated to chapter books while in Kindergarten (her dad & I were early readers, and still always have a book or e-book nearby). Her reading hobby makes things like bus trips and long car rides tolerable. I’d rather have her nose in a book than in a videogame or watching a movie. (Don’t misunderstand me; she has a couple of video games on an old iPhone, but we don’t own a videogame player and don’t plan to. Ever.) Instead, we offer lots of reading material. I hope she grows to love the written word, in nearly any format. Childrens readers like Little House on the Prairie and the Magic Treehouse. The back of the cereal boxes. Reading my emails and text messages over my shoulder… well, you get the picture (thankfully, my texts are “clean”). To keep her focused, I got her a blank book so she could track what she’s read this summer. That’s her summer goal before 1st grade. This weekly post, my written word mash-up, with a closing music video (or 2), is my summer reading “log”. I’m a couple days later than intended with this post, but I think I’ll move it to Wednesdays in the future. I hope you’re enjoying it so far! And I hope you’ll be a regular visitor, too.
For the writers who need free photos…
Image taken from page 19 of ‘Songs for Little People. [With illustrations by H. Stratton.]’ Copyright – Public Domain, from the British Library
As a blogger, I sometimes (ok, often) hit the mental wall of silence. Writer’s Block. Procrastination. Or I just run out of ideas and steam. At the same moment. As a visual creative, thought-provoking images and words help get the mental juices running. Check out the free photos from as far back as the 17th century, some which still needs to be tagged properly, but with this sort of stockpile, you can add a bit of quirk, flair, and historical reference to your own work.
I initially jotted down “writers block hangover cure” when I found this link and knew I wanted to eventually share it with you. ‘Nuf said. (You still have a bit of work to do and plug in a few words here or there, but it’s a nice little prompter if you’re stuck on a title.)
For the Parents/Grandparents out there… or folks who love children’s books…
This is one of my favorite children’s books. It means a lot to me personally but I can’t help but think of my own parents as I listen to author Robert Munsch reading aloud on his own site. I suggest you have your own copy (& child nearby if you wish) while he reads you a story, or 2 or 3. Drop him a note too (he responds pretty darn quick).
If you’ve got an idea for a manuscript or you have a completed one, waiting for the chance at publication. Maybe you’ve toyed with self-publishing or releasing it online, chapter by chapter. Have you tried overseas publishing companies? Aerogrammestudio‘s list can get you started.
Storytelling at it’s best from The Moth. If you’re a fan of audiobooks or poetry slams, you’ll love this storytelling site. Meg Wollitzer’s coming of age tale highlights summer camp from the eyes of a young girl trying to keep up with her more sophisticated fellow campers. Ah, I don’t miss the tween/teen years. At. All.
A young woman I worked with years ago is on a roller derby skate team. Knowing how quiet she could be around me when I first met her, seeing photos of her in her roller derby gear at first caught me by surprise. This article gives me a bit more insight into the world of roller derby…I’m intrigued. I can imagine what kind of alter ego names I like. Maybe something from the Potter world. Definitely not Disneyana. What about you? [Tweet “Skate names are like alter egos.-Regina Lampert @frogmouth_inc“]
We’re Irish Dance fans in our home by default, although hubby saw Riverdance nearly 20 years ago. Our 6 year old took it up a year ago and has really taken to it. She dances a jig instead of walking most places now. These last 2 videos are for her.
The Try Guys try Irish Step Dancing
The fearless four known as the Try Guys do their best (worst?) attempt with Irish dancing.
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Melody AKA Nymphadora Taunts
(Kidding! I can’t even skate backwards)
ChitChat Pack 1.2 – Sound Bites
As I’m writing this late in the night (early in the morning?), I’m listening to a mixtape by Scottish-born DJ Stillhead. It’s a super-chill mix to start with and perfect background music to write about this week’s collection of stories and links. I’m a natural sharer and with each new discovery, I bookmark, tab, highlight relentlessly with the diehard intention to share. Sometimes I get a common theme going and other times, it’s a literal, verbal hot mess or brain dump. This week’s edition is a collection of Sound Bites, focusing on 2 of my favorite themes: Music and Food on a global stage. You see, after living in Europe, Asia and the USA, I would be hard-pressed to ignore the different cultural influences pockmarking my musical and gastronomic tastes. I hope you’ll check out some of these special finds, enjoy listening or reading about them and maybe, just maybe, seek them out in your piece of the world. Because, dear readers, [Tweet “the world has so much to offer and what’s life without a bit of adventure?”]
A couple of years ago, I attended a blogger conference in Berlin, a city that visitors either love or hate. I’m one of those travelers who enjoys the cultural mix that makes Berlin unique and alive, more so than other cities in eastern Germany. Two of the conference speakers came from Freunde von Freunden, an international publication that introduces different cultures, cities, industries from around the world. I learned that mixtape talents often came from the local Berlin music industry, which is just as much a melting pot as the city itself. Stillhead’s mixtape for FvF is best listened to while traveling. Plug it in to unplug from your crazy morning commute.
FvF mixtapes found on Mixcloud or iTunes are unique and you can count on a new one every 2 weeks.
I won’t lie to you; we love Paris. Heck, we love France. My husband is a bonafide Francophile although I think he could live anywhere in the world and be happy. When I stumbled on this little video after having visited Paris at the end of June, I had to share it here. While we do make a point to visit typical tourist spots, we also prefer to mix up our itinerary with a lot of wandering, preferring to enjoy the overall experience as much as possible. You’ll see a lot of the Paris I love when you watch Eve Jackson’s video with 3 prolific British artists (a singer, portrait artist and actress). You’ll get a look at a food and music lover’s walk around Montmartre, wander through a favorite Parisian museum housed in an old train station, and visit an artist’s studio. (You know I paused it a few times to catch the names of a couple of the food shops they visited for our next visit to the City of Light!)
Did you know that July is National Ice Cream Month in the USA?
It’s no secret to anyone who’s lived in Germany that the Germans love their ice cream or “eis”–the creamier, the better. And the Italian gelato ice cream truck is a favorite sight to see year ‘round. (Eis Tony comes to the bottom of our driveway at 1700 or 5pm, every day, rain or shine.) There are so many yummy flavors in this world from personal favorite Goma or black sesame ice cream in Japan to straciatella in Europe.
If you caught last week’s ChitChat Pack, I mentioned that I only recently started becoming comfortable traveling solo. Why? When I was in the Navy, at one point while assigned with the 7th Fleet in Japan, I always needed a travel buddy to leave the ship whenever we pulled into a foreign port. Before then, I’d only had a chance to wander around a new city a couple of times on my own timeline with my own checklist (or non-checklist). Of course, I quickly figured out with whom I was comfortable traveling around a strange city and I have fab memories of those visits! But there’s a lot to be said about traveling solo. This quick list of 9 things is so very true… I’ve met some of the most interesting people and collected fantastic memories that would not have happened if I wasn’t traveling solo.
A couple of weeks ago, our child decided that she wanted to learn how to play the violin. I thought maybe it was just one of those fleeting whims that every young child gets. (Natch, she’s still very much obsessed with it so we have a trial class at a local school soon.) Neither my husband nor I play the violin (he played briefly as a youngster before switching to trumpet). I’d hoped perhaps she would want to learn the piano or keyboard first. I don’t normally subscribe to “signs” but when I was listening to FvF’s mixtapes earlier, I found their profile on German violin maker, Frank Rittwagen. Maybe it’s a “sign”…
We live in wine country (that’s my child running through a nearby vineyard) and I love learning about the different wines produced in this region, especially when the local vineyards open up their businesses and offer dinner a couple of times a week in the summer. Imagine my surprise when I learned about a pair of brothers who, against all odds, are continuing their family dream of making wine in a Syrian war zone.
We (my child and I) are fans of YouTube musical artists. I’m also a fan of mashups. Here’s a crazy fun mashup from uber-popular Kurt Hugo Schneider’s channel from earlier this year when he and his buds traveled to India. Enjoy!
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Morguefile. One of my main go-to free stock photo sites.
Canva. I use this fantastic and free/low-cost site for simple and beautiful graphics for use here on my blog, my business site Global VA Connect, and on social media.
ChitChat pack 1.1 – Links We Love
Have you ever experienced writers’ block? That staring-blankly-at-a-white-page zoned out look? I’ve been in a writing slump lately and hoped a bit of personal travel would help. While it helped to recharge, the brain cells still needed a sumpin’-sumpin’… a spark. Not sure what it is, but even after a trip to Paris and visits with out-of-town friends and family, I’m still on the hunt for the elusive spark. I’ve started and stopped a half-dozen writing projects in as many weeks. I’ve recently started a 3-day Business Blogging Badass Challenge with Anne McAuley that had me thinking of all the “stuff” in my overflowing inbox, all the potential content! Every week I get tons of stories in my inbox. So I scrubbed, I hemmed, I hawed. Finally…here’s a small collection of links we love, digital finds, favorite stories, tips & hints.
Older parents rock!
We never intended to be older parents. Since we didn’t marry until our early 30s, we knew we’d be a bit older than other parents when our child/children reached schoolage. What I never expected is that I’d be (1) in my 40s and (2) retired from one career when our daughter entered kindergarten. I don’t think it takes a research study to tell me that being older and having more financial means to provide for my child has an impact on our overall lifestyle and yes, happiness. But it’s still an interesting 2-minute read.
[Tweet “Older Parents are happier parents according to German researchers”]
Just in time for summer festivals: A beer and food pairing guide
When it’s hot and humid, sometimes a cold beer is the perfect drink to accompany the different foods available at the different festivals here in Germany and around the world this summer. I wish this infographic was a bit bigger as it’s a Tweet from The Wine Wankers in Oz. (Maybe they’ll see this and post a full image? One can only hope for a pocket-sized version…)
And what festival would be complete without the local version of a hot dog?
One of my favorite traveling food critics, Andrew Zimmern, waxes poetic about the ultimate hot dog. Here’s his ultimate hot dog… recipe! Pssst… it’s more than just a grill or a pot of water on the stovetop!
As an introvert who loves to travel but hates crowds, I’m lucky that my husband shares similar tendencies. It’s only recently that I’ve taken to traveling solo and have enjoyed London, Berlin and Paris for a few days at a time to recharge. If you wondered how an introvert travels solo, take a few minutes to read World of Wanderlust’s guide to understand the introverted wanderer.
I love a bargain and am always on the lookout for unique places to stay. If I’m traveling solo or with my child, I also look at places that are relatively safe but offer a bit of culture outside the door. This collection of hostels around the world makes me want to book a ticket.
I worked with a family guy who loved to travel around the US in his luxury RV. His twin boys loved being able to stretch out while mom or dad drove the huge RV, sometimes towing their car, from state to state, coast to coast. I enjoyed hearing the stories and especially hearing about how much money they saved by staying in campgrounds than in expensive hotels. Maybe one day, we’ll join the camper craze! Conde Nast traveler recently reviewed the best campers for summer road trips.
Summer project: Closet Detox
The Chalkboard online magazine is a new favorite addition to my daily feed and I’ve been following the Closet Detox this summer. My goal is to get a capsule wardrobe started by the time summer ends. However, I need a serious closet detox first!
I’ve been following one of the original mom bloggers, Heather Armstrong of Dooce.com for years now. I admit, I started following her because of the fantastic and funny photos of her dog Chuck. If you are an animal lover, do not read this without a box of tissues nearby.
This week’s most addictive tune on endless loop in our home, thanks to the wee one who’s a big Taylor fan.
Thanks for reading! I hope to do this on a regular basis to jumpstart each week. Comments are always appreciated (unless they’re totally snarky and rude or you’re a spammer, then you’ll get the big D).
The Best Children’s Suitcase: The JAKO-O Cupboard Trolley
Checking in at the airport
It’s been a while since I’ve blogged. I apologize to y’all because I’ve been truly busy working with awesome client projects at Global VA Connect the last couple of months. I’ve got several blogs in draft mode, waiting to be scheduled. However, with spring in full swing and travel on the mind, I thought I’d start the week off with a product review. Since we just came back from a last minute trip to see family across the Pond (Atlantic), I thought I’d share a quick review of JAKO-O Children’s Cupboard Trolley, what I now consider the best children’s suitcase with wheels. I’ve highlighted 3 main reasons below: it’s age and height appropriate, its excellent design promotes efficient and organized packing (frazzled parents of independent children, this is a MUST), and it’s lightweight.
AGE AND HEIGHT APPROPRIATE:
There are 2 sizes available, based on the child’s height. I’ve met some really tall 6 year olds… in fact, just this past week, we met a friend at a playground and her 6 year old was a full 8 inches taller than our child! That little girl would be perfectly fine with either the small or large model. The smaller is appropriate for a child 1 meter tall; the larger is meant for children 1.5 meters tall. Our daughter is just over 1 meter tall and it was perfect, even with the small trolley bag attached (it slides nicely over the telescopic handle).
She used the trolley bag as her main carryon, although we ended up carrying it since the little books tucked inside actually made it heavier than it looked. (I wish it had backpack straps, she wishes it had wheels and a telescopic handle.)
My favorite quality of this trolley is it’s truly a cupboard, with adjustable (velcro) shelves that have nice straps to contain clothes. The designer placed a lot of thought and consideration to the commuter child (visits grandparents or divorced parents) or the frequent child traveler.
Our 6 year old packed her bag herself with minimal help (a checklist to use and a final visual check from a parent), sorting clothes, toiletries & a few toys onto each shelf so she could easily find them later. She even managed to keep her clothes off the floor at her grandparents’ homes this past week when we were traveling. (Her old suitcase was one big space and even if she used small organizer bags to separate clothing like undergarments, socks and hair accessories, we’d still see a huge mess on the floor.)
There is no space for hanging items but her frilly little church dresses and tulle skirts easily rolled (no wrinkles!) and fit into one of the 4 shelves.
Outer pockets: The 4 side pockets were a nice size and could fit her toiletries, hair accessories and a couple pairs of shoes.
Laundry/sport/wet clothing bag: included in purchase is a nice size waterproof bag that matches the gray shelves. It’s perfect for dirty clothes or wet swimsuits.
Suggestion for Jako-o designer: Place a handle at the base, where the wheels are located so that it’s easier to grab out of the boot (trunk) or off the baggage claim. Also, add 2 wheels and make them all 360 degree spinner wheels, too. It would make for easier transport through busy airport terminals like Atlanta and Heathrow.
Since it’s a lightweight bag and smaller than typical luggage, we really don’t fear overpacking. In fact, if you look at the photo above, you’ll see a milk jug of marbles. That heavy antique glass jug wouldn’t fit in my luggage without tipping it over the maximum weight but was tucked in nicely on the bottom shelf of my child’s bag. (We did ask her first as it’s the polite thing to do.)
Nice to know information follows…
It’s a bit pricey for a one-time trip, but since we do travel quite a bit for long weekends as well as weeklong (or more) trips, it’s worth the 99+€ for the cupboard trolley. This will likely be our last luggage purchase for her for a couple of years if not more. It’s well-made and protected contents well. If you want to protect your investment, you can also buy a trolley protector, a waterproof bag cover for a few euro more. (We didn’t)
WHERE TO BUY:
Since we live in Europe, those are the links I’ve added above. Unfortunately, JAKO-O stores are located Germany and apparently, mail order is only available in continental Europe, Great Britain and Ireland. I’ve scoured English speaking sites but haven’t found a wheeled suitcase quite like this one. *If you know of one, please share!
Cost and exclusivity aside, this is the best single luggage purchase for children we’ve seen. No other bag has been able to address a child’s need for organization and independence as well as Jako-o’s cupboard trolley. And the colors are vibrant but not tacky, yet easily identifiable in baggage claim. I’ve hunted around for something comparable for myself, to no avail. I may just head back to the store to pick one up for myself.
Disclaimer: I did not receive any compensation, product or discount for this review.
The Nanny Files: 8 Very Simple Things You Can Do To Save Your Sanity When Traveling With Kids
Tuesday Tips with Tasha
Waiting for our Carriage Ride outside Vienna’s Spanish Riding School (I really like this photo of them!)
Happy Tuesday, Blog Family! A few weeks ago, our dear nanny pal Tasha had a short Q&A session about modern childcare options. She’s been quite busy as a London nanny of 3 active children so we had to delay her next post to this week. When I asked her what she’d like to write about, we bounced around a couple of ideas until this one landed. Perfect for all the upcoming trips that families are oft to do when warmer weather strikes. (Although I suggest traveling in winter weather to get out of the winter blues!) Without further adieu, here are Tasha’s 8 proven simple things you can do to save your sanity when traveling with kids.
1 Have snacks, ALWAYS.
The last thing you want is to have kids saying “I’m hungggrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyy” and go on and on and on till you go in the shop to get something (which then turns into another nightmare). From ricecakes to fruit, have something to give them. I normally carry 3 different sets of snacks, plus something for yourself.
2 In the car, on the tube?
So you say you don’t want the kids on the iPad or phone the entire time? Get them too choose a colouring book/sticker book and a small little toy with which they can play on the journey, and stop the boredom and restlessness from appearing!
3 Let your children have their own little backpack, WHICH THEY KNOW THEY HAVE TO CARRY.
This allows them to have free access to the colouring books/reading books and little toys while on the journey and reduces the amount you have to carry. Make sure you tell the child before you leave he will be carrying it and be FIRM. If you end up carrying it, what’s the point?
4 Know where the toilets are located wherever you are going.
Simple, logical yet sometimes forgotten.
5 Write your mobile/cell number in PEN on the child’s arm.
Don’t write the child’s name just ‘mum’ ‘nanny’ ‘dad’, just in case they get lost. This helps ensure that someone will contact you.
6 Have a password with your child.
A pre-agreed word for safety to be used in case a stranger ever turned up and said ‘your mummy told me to get you’ and wanted the child to accompany him. If your child knows there is a password, he would ask the stranger for it, and know that he shouldn’t go with that person without the password. Remember if someone is picking up your child…..tell them the password.
7 Have a plan A, B and C.
Just in case, you never know…and this means you can move onto the next plan without anyone knowing but yourself.
8 Don’t stress about what anyone else is thinking about how your child is acting, or the way you’re parenting.
If your child misbehaves, tell them off and don’t be afraid to do so because you’re out in public. Otherwise your child may become the ‘nightmare’ child as she knows you won’t do a thing once out in public. If your child is talking loud, playing her games, is happy and having fun, but the people around her don’t like it…tough! You and your children have every right to be there too. There is no need to get stressed over other people.
So, lovely readers, what did you think? Do you have your own tips to add to this list? I’d love to hear about them in the comments!
Special thanks to Tasha for her easy to remember tips and we’ll see her soon, here again on a future Tuesday! If there’s something you’d like her to discuss, pop it into the comments or send an email to email@example.com. Thanks for stopping by!